You can do this

The first time we went to Newcastle with Alice, the Tyne Bridge was displaying The Great North Run logo, and every time I visited Alice in August and September, that logo was calling out to me. When we were in Newcastle after Alice’s murder, the logo was still there, and it triggered something in my subconscious. By the end of the year, without really understanding how I was going to do it, I had signed up for a place in the Great North run 2017, supporting Women’s Aid.

Thank you, Rob!

Special thanks to Rob Byrne who ran in Sunday’s London marathon, and to all our other runners

The cost of a murder

If we can ensure that everyone in every school in the country is properly educated about stalking, then we will make an enormous impact. People will be more likely to identify stalking, whether it is happening to them, to their friends or being carried out by their friends. They will know what to do about it and how to support those people that it is affecting. This is so important!

It takes a village…

When Alice died, we had lived in the same village for over thirty years. I think I knew everybody in the village, some really well and most on more than just on a nodding acquaintance. But without exception, everyone was unbelievably supportive.

Overcast lake with red buoys marking a course, a wooden post and rope in the foreground, and a tree-covered island in the distance.

That terrible night

Alice was murdered somewhere around 6.20pm on 12th October 2016.  We always remember what we were doing at times of crisis and I was helping debug the report printing software at school.

Group of cyclists wearing helmets stop on a wet rural road, chatting beside their bikes as signs point ahead for routes.

Stalking – a minefield of confusion

Alice felt very uneasy about calling the police about Dhillon’s stalking. She felt that this was a boyfriend who would not go away and was not something that the police should be bothered by.

Cycling across Wales

Our fundraising cyclists have ridden across England, Scotland, Ireland (once virtually and once for real)—and now it’s time for Wales!

White dog mid-leap between mossy rocks on a rocky lakeside, with a person in a blue jacket crouching on a rock in the background.

What makes a good relationship

One of the questions most asked by journalists is whether I saw any indication of Trimaan Dhillon’s true character whilst Alice was going out with him.

Alice Ruggles turtle logo
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